Khloe Kardashian took a moment to reflect on the year 2016, which led her to realize just how far she’s come.

The star – who recently finalized her divorce from Lamar Odom – wrote on her app: “I like to make goals in life, but I make sure that the goals aren’t too crazy because if you ever fall off the horse, you will beat yourself up. It’s good to set small goals, and I never set a crazy time limit for myself. The new year is a good time to reflect on the baby steps I’ve taken, and how I’ve evolved.

Not everything is an f***ing race – it’s the marathon of life! I think it’s so important to acknowledge the evolution. It took me a long time to get here. I feel like I’ve grown so much this year, with what I can handle and how I react to situations.”

And the Keeping Up with the Kardashians star – who is now dating Tristan Thompson – previously admitted she’s honest to a fault when it comes to dating.

She shared: “I’m honest to a fault, and if something isn’t working, I will straight-up tell the person I’m seeing. Instead of ghosting, be real about what you want – or what you don’t want. It might be awkward, but disconnecting from someone you’ve been seeing without giving a reason is just rude. It f***s with their spirit and doesn’t let them get closure.

The only time that I think this could be OK is if you’ve said, ‘This isn’t working for me’ and they still aren’t getting the point. If they’re still bothering you, just cut it off. That’s the only time when being unresponsive is OK! Otherwise, just suck it up and tell the truth!!!”